Keeping in touch

 

 

 

When friends move away, it's hard to keep in touch with them. You both get busy with your separate lives and don't have the time to catch up with each other. Nonetheless, it's important to keep in touch with friends.

 

 

Call often. Simply pick up the phone and call whenever you can-it doesn't have to be along phone call. Just a quick 5 minute call can get you caught up with your friends, and they will know you were thinking of them. Let them know you want to know what's going on with them. They're probably interested to hear about what you up to, too!

 

 

Write letters. It's fun to get mail, and sometimes letters can be a great way to let your friends know what's going on with you. Not sure where to start? It's easy! Tell them how much you miss them, and then tell them all about what's going on in your life. Don't be afraid of being boring...if they know exactly what's up, they'll feel closer to you. Some people find it hard to write letters-it's a lot different than talking! Just write as though you're talking to your friend. Use phrases that you say a lot. Do you say "like" pretty much like, every second word? Then use that when you're writing! It's easy once you get going. Finish your letter off with smiley faces, drawings, X's and O's...whatever seems suitable.

 

 

Send Cards. Hallmark cards are easily accessible, and it's a non-time-consuming way to let your friends know your thinking about them. Pick something that you think will make them laugh, or one with heartfelt sentiments that describe your friendship. Hallmark's line of musical cards- they sing when you open them!- are sure to bring a smile. Then just sign your name, add a quick message, and send it off!!

 

 

Send gifts in the mail. Baking, books, magnets, bookmarks, jewelry, games, pictures and videos of you and family and friends....anything goes! Sometimes the littlest things can show that you care the most-just inexpensive trinkets that show you're thinking of your friends!

 

 

Email or chat online. Make sure you both have e-mail addresses and you're all set! Homemade letters can easily get lost on the way, get torn, or just get boring. E-Mailing your friends is a great and helpful way to say in touch with each other. Use instant messengers to your advantage, by talking to all your friends at the same time!

 

 Here are some other things you can consider when keeping in touch with your friends:

 

 

1. Make plans to see each other...if you know you're going to hang out soon, you'll keep in touch.

 

2. Talk to your friends as much as possible make sure that you give them a chance to talk about their life too. If you don't they may feel like it's all about you.

 

3. Don't wait for your friends to make the first move...don't wait for them to call you or send you a letter! Who knows how busy they are....or if they are waiting for you! Don't expect them to make the first move...make it your responsibility.

 

4. Use the Internet and the technology of your phone to your advantage. Make sure you have your friends, phone number, are friends with them on Facebook, have their email address, etc.

 

 

It's hard to keep in touch, and there may be times when things just don't seem the same as they used to be. If you can, arrange to meet whenever possible, talk whenever possible, send letters whenever possible, and keep your friendship alive!

 

 

With Love,

 

"B"